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What I Learned On My Trip to South Korea

August 5, 2015 by sonami3@gmail.com

 

So as I write this I am 38,000 feet in the air, flying via Korean Air, reflecting on my experience, and planning my next career and life moves. At the age of 26, I’ve accomplished a good number of things in my life. For one, I can say that I am now a Professional Basketball Player after one season in the Mongolian Sprite League, I have traveled out of the U.S. to 3 countries,  Russia, Mongolia and South Korea.  I have traveled through and explored the city of Seoul and rode on the beautiful waters of Incheon. I have gone to the Country side of Mongolia and ridden on a Mongolian horse. I met a lot of beautiful Mongolian women. I have eaten Mongolian food, got accustomed to a totally new culture, lived on my own in a country thousands of miles away from Jersey and learned key phrases in the Mongolian Language. Life could not be better, yet I still want more as I have not achieved the athletic and financial goals that I have set out for myself.

So what’s next?

Well, I have to first train with Pro Basketball Trainer Hasan Ahad (who played Pro Ball for 7 years in China)  in North Carolina to take my game to the next level so I can stand head and shoulders above my Mongolian Competition. I have to reach out to agents to close my next deal after the Super League this year. Regarding to business, I have  to get laser focused on my sharing more inspiring and impactful Basketball blog posts with you all and create an online basketball video program that will help take your game to the next level. And waking up at 5 am will give me the much needed tine and energy to accomplish this task in 2015. There are 5 more months left this year, 3 of which without in-season distraction and I have to push harder than I ever have before.  And a thought just popped into my head; Neil Patel (Founder of Quick Sprout) was right – it is best, at least for me, to write early in the morning because I right now I am fresh, energized with tremendous will power and inspired to share my story and experiences to inspire others to live out their dreams. Staying on the topic of dreams, I had a conversation with a fellow Korean Air Transit Tour Member name Michelle from Austrailia. Michelle now lives and teaches in Malaysia. And I asked her what does her friends and family think of her traveling expedition and she said they think she’s a hero living vicariously through her. And I said someday they’ll be able to travel too to which she said “no they won’t. Most can’t afford it”. But I said with an online business or some type of business they will be able to. Anything is Possible. And she says “I guess’.  So right then and there, I saw that she was a “realist pessimist” but that is why I do what I do. I want to inspire people and let them know that anything they want is possible. They just have to dream enough times, work toward that dream and before they know it they’re life’s purpose is being fulfilled right in front of their eyes.

While on the boat in South Korea, I recorded a simple video and promised myself that I would be super successful one day. It almost brought me to tears while on that boat, because here I was a kid who emigrated with his family from Kathmandu, Nepal at 19 months old and grew up in a 1 square mile town called Hoboken living out his dreams of playing Professional Basketball and traveling the world, relaxing on a beautiful boat out on the Incheon River in Incheon, South Korea. Yes, I had dreams of this moment but I did not in my wildest dreams think that I would be doing this at such a young age. I was thinking more like when I am about 40 or 50. So, as I took some long deep breaths out on that boat I was overwhelmed with emotion, gratitude, hunger, ambition, love, fascination and excitement of what is to come; as the saying goes, “To whom much is given much is expected.” So as some people say, I am and really feel like “The Chosen One”. You can trace my success back to when I was a little baby, surviving the tragedy of putting both of my hands in a burning fire in Nepal with 3rd degree burns, to surviving the burns of hot tea accidentally poured on my forehead, to beating a severe asthma attack and being placed at St. Mary’s Hospital for 1 week, to winning multiple MVP’s and being selected to All-Star teams from Age 9 and up, making it to the Regional HoopShoot foul shot contest in Red Bank, NJ, winning almost every academic award in Middle school, starting Varsity Basketball and Soccer at St. Peter’s Prep, to excelling in my leagues at Rutgers and in Philipino leagues, to starting a business, to being recruited to 2 Semi-Pro Teams, to playing Professional Basketball and to traveling to 3 countries in 2015. “To whom much is given much is expected”. But it wasn’t all me and I know that. It was God blessing me with such a loving and supportive family, amazing talents, skills and abilities to excel in athletics and life. So I have be given all the tools to become super successful. It is now up to me to build on my successes and reach my Summit and beyond to contribute to society and inspire possibility.

Also, looking at the plethora of Mongolian and Korean businesses I could not help but admire their work ethic and desire to help their families. It was inspiring to see as a rising professional athlete and struggling entrepreneur because they’ve been around for 10-20 years and are still going strong with a smile on their face. So if they can do it so can I. Watching these people work 14-16 hours a day reminded me of my parents who owned and worked at our Convenient store in Hoboken for 17 years. So I vowed to work just as hard if not harder to make my mark in the most incredible time in history with the age of instant communication, technological advancement, buyer spending at an all time high and with the great possibility of becoming a millionaire or living out your dream by age 30.

So that’s pretty much it for now. I wanted to just share with you my experiences, thoughts and improved viewpoints on what it possible. My mind and success thermometer has expanded and will never go back to it’s previous form. I am eternally grateful for everything I have been given, have achieved and will keep working on my dream and improving the world every day that I am on this Earth. Thank you for reading and I hope this post inspired you enough to go out and make your dreams come true.

Filed Under: South Korea Tagged With: Basketball Dreams, set goals, trip to south korea, work hard

My Story

June 11, 2015 by sonami3@gmail.com

I struggled so much in my life and journey to become a professional basketball player.

Where it all Started – at the age of 9 at my Parents Grocery Story – learning from the insane, 16 hour a day back breaking hard work that both my Mom and Dad put in everyday for 15 years to provide a better life for my 2 younger brothers and me. They are my ultimate heroes and without them I would not have been able to achieve all that I have in my life.

Then learning how to play basketball from my childhood friend, Eddie Castellanos quickly after getting introduced to my lifelong mentor, Coach and friend, Mike Mincey at the Hoboken Boys and Girls Club where I played basketball religiously for 5 hours a day, everyday from age 9 to Age 16 when I entered High School at St. Peter’s Prep. then AAU in Jersey City, New York, etc.

Shooting at night all by myself, looking in the sky asking God when will my dream of playing Professional Basketball come true? or if it will ever come true? Am I working this hard for nothing. Will all my hardwork, blood, sweat and tears I put in to the game payoff?

Then going on to High School and having a good career at St. Peter’s Prep in Jersey City.

Getting recruited to Play at Montclair State University but turning it down to pursue my dreams of playing Division 1 at Rutgers University but not being chosen.

Invited into training camp in my Junior Year of College with Division 3 College team – Rutgers Newark but then getting cut feeling like my dream was over.

But then falling more in love with the game, working out on my own everyday for 8 years from freshman year of college to 2015 – my first year of Professional Basketball.

Playing any and everywhere – outdoor, indoor, dirt roads, in the snow, in the rain.

Intramurals, Philipino leagues, having my mom and cousin tape my games just dreaming, wishing, hoping, praying and grinding to get my chance to play Pro ball.

Crying myself to sleep because I had not achieved my dream of playing professional basketball. Then finally being fed up with my life and saying enough is enough. I’m going to make it as a Professional Basketball player no matter what. I’m going to make it or die trying.

Fast forward to the Summer of 2013 I skipped a crucial quarterfinal playoff game for my Annual Nepalese Association (ANA) Basketball tournament to go tryout at the Blacktop Pro Showcase at St. Francais College in Brooklyn. My teammates were pissed and so was my girlfriend at the time for leaving them to go to this Pro tryout. But I said fuck it going after my dreams is way more important than some Annual Asian Tournament.

Getting Drafted to play on 2 Semi-Pro Basketball Teams in New York – but not getting any Overseas offers.

Getting chosen to play on a Professional Basketball Tour to play in Ireland but then at the last minute being told that I needed a Visa from the Ireland Embassy to fly to Ireland. I was crushed and literally broke down on the floor crying on my kitchen floor because I had lost my chance of getting a contract to play professionally overseas.

Then fate stepping in where I met a good friend, Brandon Santiago who laid out a plan for me to make it Pro. His plan was simple: Go to Las Vegas and attend 2 Professional Camps – EuroBasket Summer League Camp and Bridgewater Academy getting selected to Top 20 All-Star Team

Getting my first Agent. Trying out for a contract to Play Professionally in Mongolia

Being told I will be playing Professionally in Mongolia and finally today playing Professional Basketball.

I’m living proof that dreams do come true. As long as you keep dreaming, believing, working hard, and never give up. The only way for you to fail is if you give up.

Here’s what my friend Michael Aquilina said on Facebook about my accomplishment of playing Pro ball:

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As the late Jim Valvano said during his fight against Cancer, “Don’t Give up, don’t ever give up.”

I believe in you.

-Sonam

Filed Under: My Story Tagged With: Basketball Dreams, Do what you love, Dream Chaser, Dreams Do Come True, My Story, Never Give Up, Sonam Lama Story

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